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“In this moment, where all things are possible…” I have been using this statement at the end of the guided meditations that I lead in my yoga classes. Each time I say it, I ask myself, “Is this really true?”  I ask myself, “How does this show up in my life?”


I went to a Jack Canfield workshop in August of 2016. It was entitled, “Breakthrough to Success”. Canfield stepped into national recognition when his co-authored book, Chicken Soup for the Soul, now a series, sold 500 million copies. During his workshop he showed us a video, The Selective Attention Test, of a handful of college students playing basketball. We were asked a question.   In order to continue reading this blog, please hit the hot link and watch the video your self.[1]

I watched the video and actually arrived at the correct answer.  However, he then asked another question. I was so surprised because I had no idea to what he was referring.  He replayed the video and because I was now aware, I could answer his second question. This was startling to me. How could I have missed it first time? I was concentrating on counting the bounces. That was what was consuming my awareness. I was not in an open, relaxed awareness in which I took in everything. I was being tested and I wanted to get the correct answer.

In Canfield’s workshop I ‘got’ again that “Perception is reality”.   What I see, hear and feel are my reality markers. It doesn’t matter what is out there, what I perceive I assume is reality.

We all know that once we are introduced to something, i.e. a new model of car for instance, we see it everywhere. Have you ever taken the driver’s education course to lower your car insurance rate? It turns our drive to the grocery store into a defensive match. The cars that line the sidewalk have doors that can open at any moment. There could be a child chasing a ball running out in front of us at any moment. This experience of seeing the video’s array of possible driving mishaps changes our perception. It makes us hone in on our driving environment in a more defensive way. We aren’t just thinking about getting from A to B. We are focused on what could arise in the process.

At Canfield’s workshop Kathleen Seeley,, gave a lunch workshop entitled, “Tools to Maximize Your Learning”. One of the points she drove home with many examples she calls: “Tapping into the Gap Between the E and the R.”

  1. The Event
  2. The Story or interpretation of the event made up by you.
  3. The Feeling or feelings you created as a result of your story.
  4. The Response or what action is taken as a result of the story.


Where I put my attention is crucial to my state of mind beginning with my interpretation of an event.

Let’s consider Isaac Lidsky’s Ted Talk,


He discovered at age 13 that he had a degenerative eye disease and lost his sight by age 23. His talk is very inspirational! In it he states:

“Hold your self accountable for every moment, every thought, every detail. See beyond your fears. Recognize your assumptions. Harness your internal strength. Silence your internal critic. Correct your misconceptions about luck and about success. Accept your strengths and your weaknesses, and understand the difference. Open your hearts to your bountiful blessings.”

Now are you thinking this is too time consuming and taking self-awareness too far?  He is languaging the statement, “In this moment, where all things are possible.”


Jon Kabat-Zinn wrote the following:

“The only time you ever have in which to learn anything or see anything or feel anything, or express any feeling or emotion, or respond to an event, or grow, or heal, is this moment, because this is the only moment any of us ever gets. You’re only here now; you’re only alive in this moment.”

The producer of the Selective Attention Test video reminded me in an email that “the limits of awareness and attention are structural.  You can take in different things depending on how and where you focus attention, but you can’t fundamentally change how much you take in (at least not much).”

I challenge you, as I challenge myself, to be more open and aware of your perceptions of an event and the result.  My statement:  In This Moment where all things are possible” is an invitation to be more aware and open to what is taking place in any moment.


The Breath Diva tells us:

“Attention is one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself and to others.”

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What is your body type? How does this influence your workout style and yoga preferences?

When I was in high school Levi’s jeans were one of the cool looks. Levi’s jeans are built for an ectomorph, someonewith long thin legs and a wider waist. I am a combo of mesomorph and endomorph; I have thighs and a more compact waist area. My thighs serve me well in cycling classes and in stability postures in yoga. However if I tried on a pair of Levi’s that fit my thighs, the waist area was too large.   It was not cool to use a belt if the fabric had to be gathered at the top. I did not fit the Levi’s mold. According to the Sheldon Somatotype model, each of us “inherited a body type based on skeletal frame and body composition”.   The University of Houston’s Teacher’s Corner article goes on to say, “William Sheldon, PhD, MD, introduced the concept of body types, or somatotypes, in the 1940’s. Since then, nutritionists exercise physiologists and even doctors have used it to help design effective, individualized fitness plans”.

The three types are characterized the following ways:

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Muscular, broad shoulders, defined waist and slim hips.

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Tall, long thin limbs and little body fat.

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Are round and solid and often appear overweight.

I like to share this information with my USF students because I think it is important to understand one’s physical body type so that we may work in harmony and appreciation of our gifts and chose appropriate activities to balance our body/mind.

In the Ayurvedic system, there are 3 body types or “Doshas”: Pita, Vata, and Kapha. According to mindbodygreen these body types have the following characteristics.

Pitta: Medium physique, strong, well built; a sharp mind and good concentration powers. Pitta’s tend to be orderly, focused, assertive and self confident.

Vata: Slender, Tall and quick to learn and grasp new knowledge but also quick to forget.

Kapha: Easygoing, relaxed, slow-paced; affectionate and loving. Forgiving, compassionate and non judgmental. Physically strong and with a sturdy, heavier build.

I have correlated these 3 body types with the Somatotypes. I am not the first person to correlate these 3 Ayurvedic doshas with the Sheldon Somatotypes.

We can have an ‘Aha’ moment when we realize our personality characteristics are strongly influenced by our physical body type. A Pitta/Mesomorph, strong and muscular can be assertive and possibly quick to anger.   A Kapha/Endomorph, who has a solid build, has enduring patience and is slow to anger. A Vata/Ectomorph is the forward thinking, creative person who may move quickly from one area of interest to another.

In relationships and in the workplace these doshas and body types have a strong influence. The Vata/Ectomorph gets up early in the morning.   The Kapha/Endomorph gets up late, is slow to get moving and has the endurance to stay up late to finish a project for instance. This body type will stick with a project until it is just right, never straying from the goal. The Vata/Ectomorph works on a project but not non-stop.   The Vata/Ectomorph needs to eat regularly to keep blood sugar levels up. The Kapha/Endomorph can skip meals and then feast in one sitting. The Vata/Ectomorph will come back to the project several times before finishing it. Then may tend to jump to a new idea and has to work on “stick-to-it-ness.”

In fitness that same applies. A Pitta/Mesomorph is an avid exerciser choosing demanding workouts that are challenging and varied. They tend to like a schedule and want to monitor their workout progress with fitness gadgets. The Vata/Ectomorph needs variety in their workout to stay motivated. These are truly the individuals that the experience oriented marketers target. They are on to the latest, hottest workouts on the market. One Vata/Ectomorph type mentioned he like to do activities where he can keep score; he plays handball. The Kapha/Endomorph has to enjoy their workout. They would tend to not be the early morning workout person. They are the trickiest clients to work with because they tend to not be self motivated in this area. They may have to multitask when working out, such as watch the news or a favorite television program. I want them to do endurance workouts. I want them to do things to get themselves moving in the morning – even just jump on a home elliptical to rev up their metabolism while they watch the news.  Or, take their dog for a walk.

What about yoga and pilates? Unknown.jpegThe creator of the Pilates Coach program, Leslee Bender is an Ectomorph. Because of her long limbs, she added a mini ball between her knees to make a Teaser safer for her lower back. She became the fitness guru of using props in Pilates classes.  Joseph Pilates was a Mesomorph.

A Pitta/Mesomorph will have strong, well defined muscles. Standing, strength postures come easy to this group. An Ashtanga or Bikram class would be appealing. Touching their toes may not. Because their muscles are short and strong, flexibility is not their strong suite. Bending their knees, widening their stance in a forward bend is helpful. The Vata/Ectomorph has long limbs and muscles, they adapt to flexibility more easily. Standing single leg balances such as standing bow can be challenging. Iyengar or Flow classes may be more appealing to these long limbed individuals. Vinyasa, as long as the sequences do not load the hips repeatedly would be a good choice.

The Endomorph/Kapha is strong and stable in yoga postures. Forward bends may be uncomfortable because of the compression to the abdomen.   Their bodies respond very well to an appropriate yoga program that is paced evenly and presents a well balanced series of postures. Wide base standing postures such as triangle, Warrior 1 and 2 are good for this body type as well as spinal twists.  A flow that is challenging is recommended becausethey need a practice that keeps them engaged.

real-face-2.jpg                                 The Breath Diva says:

“In this moment I can slowly inhale

and fully appreciate my body/mind.”